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What Do Women Want? Asked Freud
The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is ‘What does a woman want?’- Sigmund Freud
Freud, the founder of Psychoanalysis, died without figuring out what a woman wants.
Good question. How can we answer a question even women themselves can't answer it?
Women don't know what they want.
Have you ever asked one of your friends to describe what she likes about a potential partner?
When she starts answering, it seems like she's describing you. But you are just a friend, and none of what she said matches the guys she has been dating.
You answer this question but focus on what they don't want and what they respond to!
I would argue that what a woman wants varies through the time of the day, month, age, sexual essence, mood, and probably some other weird unknown factor to the men's species.
What women look for in a long-term mate isn't the same as what she looks for in a short-term fling.
First of all, she wants a man. She will test your strength and certainty of your masculine core and probably use words to describe it. Focus on actions.